“Why Most Men FAIL With Online Dating... And What To Do About It...”

Most guys who try online dating FAIL miserably.

Online dating SEEMS like a great idea… doesn't it?

You sit down at your computer, logon to the online dating website, and start emailing all kinds of hot babes… with no fear of “rejection” or confrontation. And then they email you back, get to know “the real you”, build a relationship in a friendly, low-key way, and eventually go out on a date…

Wouldn't it be GREAT if that was how it actually worked?

Well, if you've actually TRIED online dating, then you KNOW it's not like that AT ALL.

In fact, if you've tried it out, then you know that it can actually be MORE challenging than meeting women in the “real world”.

Why is this?

Well, for starters, it's this way because almost EVERY GUY is thinking this same “ideal fantasy” about online dating. And the online dating companies aren't exactly “downplaying” how difficult it is to REALLY meet women online.

But there's another reason… a more IMPORTANT reason…

Let me ask you something…

Have you ever been to an “average” bar or nightclub? You know the kind I'm talking about. It's just OK… the booze is cheap, the music is predictable, and the people are all pretty boring.

But at every one of those places, there's always a HOT girl or two. She's the one that everyone is looking at… and the one that all the guys want to talk to…

And guess what? All the guys ARE talking to her.

To the point where she is both enjoying the attention a little… AND also getting annoyed at them… because they're so THE SAME.

So with this in mind, guess what it's like to be an attractive woman with an ad on an online dating website?

Right. It's TEN TIMES worse.

It's common for a woman to get fifty or even a HUNDRED responses from men in a SINGLE DAY.

And just like the hot woman in the bar, the attractive woman with the online profile is experiencing one predictable, boring, lame introduction after another…

“Hi, you're really beautiful. How about I take you out to your favorite restaurant, then to a movie. I'd like to get to know you better…”

“I realize that I'm probably not your type, but I thought I'd try anyway. If you'd give me a chance, I'd show you that I'm the nicest guy you could ever want…”

“Hello, read my profile and let me know if you're interested…”

Microsoft should build a feature into Windows that actually reaches out and BITCH SLAPS any man that types these words in response to a woman's online dating profile.

Anyway, you get the point.

Attractive women are SMOTHERED by responses from boring, predictable, lame guys who communicate low self-esteem and approval seeking indicators. It's sad.


It Doesn't Have To Be This Way!

All that said, I have been able to meet MANY attractive women online. In fact, as I write this, I met my last two long-term girlfriends online.

I've met and dated models, actresses, dancers… artists… intellectual women… and everything in between… consistently and successfully… all online.

I taught myself to TYPE by chatting with women online.

And I perfected my “Cocky & Funny” technique talking to women… you guessed it… online.

The question is:

Why is it that I have been able to have consistent success with online dating, while most guys spend hours and hours trying to find “the key”, only to fail?
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“How To Get A Girlfriend”

I think that a lot of guys wonder “Is there anything I should do DIFFERENTLY if I'd like to turn a casual date into a girlfriend?”

The reason why I'd like to address this question is I think many guys wonder if they should do something DIFFERENT if they'd like to pursue a relationship with a woman as opposed to just dating her a few times for short-term fun.

I personally think that women have a basic program when it comes to men that are potential romantic interests. It says, “If he chases me, run. If he doesn't chase me, chase him.”

Of course, this is a big generalization, and it doesn't always hold true… but it's true enough in most situations.

If you call a woman all the time, she'll probably not call you. If you take a woman to dinner 4 times in a week, she probably won't be inviting you over for dinner at her place.

On the other hand, if you go out with a woman and she has a GREAT time with you, then you don't call for a couple of days, or maybe you call once for 3 minutes to tell her that you're busy and make plans for a few days later, SHE WILL BE THINKING ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME.

If you do seem like you're into a relationship, then a woman has a much bigger decision to make, and will be taking all kinds of things into consideration… little gestures will take on new meaning.

If you're ONLY looking for a “relationship”, then this will come across in all your dealings with women. You'll be asking different questions, answering questions differently, and playing for the long term. This can create all kinds of problems when done "too much too soon".

Sweet Things to Say to Your Girlfriend

I love kissing with you


My girlfriend and me have been together for few years already. But still, everytime we kiss, I remember our first kiss (which, to be frank, was quite awful, I was thinking – is it me, or her – which one does not know how to kiss?).

However I remember my first kiss not because it was worst our kiss ever, but because every our other kisses are better and better. And, yes, i guess, it is hard to think like that after few years of kissing everyday. Anyway, I love kissing with my girlfriend and probably I should let her know that…

I love kissing with you..

Some more sweet things to say:

You are the love of my life
I never knew what love is… until I’ve met you
You are my beautiful one!
You became part of me
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I love the way you smile
I love to hold you in my arms

Tips for successfully Approaching Women for a First Time Date

Successfully approaching a woman for the first time can be the most difficult task for many people. Guys who are very shy, find it very difficult to approach the women they like. Some boys are also very scared of rejection from the women they love. They are not bold enough to muster up the courage to approach any woman.

So now let us discuss some of the most essential tips for approaching a woman for the first time.


1.Be confident
The most important thing that one should keep in mind while approaching a women is to be very confident and bold. Women hate those men who are too shy or serious. Have ample of confidence in your self to face rejection. If you are scared of rejection then you would never be able to approach any women.


2.Do not be too desperate
While approaching a woman you should not act too desperately. Do not be too out spoken while expressing your liking for a particular woman. Handle every situation very peacefully and calmly. If you have a crush on a certain girl then try to express your feeling for her in a gentle way. If you will become too desperate then you will never succeed in any relationship.


3.Try to maintain eye contact
If you love a girl then try to maintain a healthy eye contact with her. By doing this you can easily express your feelings and emotions to her. A healthy eye contact will bring you closer to the person you admire and like. If you will use a strong eye contact then a girl will feel more attracted and drawn towards you.


4.Take genuine interest in her
If you really admire a girl and want to successfully approach her, then you should take a genuine interest in all her activities. Women are easily attracted to men who have the same views and thoughts. You should take the advantage of every possible thing that would bring you closer to her. Indulge in some activity that would prove that you are really compatible to the woman you admire. While you are in her company, talk about your common interests and goals.


5.Try to express your liking by performing thoughtful gestures
If you really want to make your beloved aware of your feelings for her, then you should perform some thoughtful gestures. Help her to carry her books, open the door for her and always be very polite to her. This is the most important tip for approaching any women. These gestures will bring you more close to the girl you like.


These are few of the most important tips to successfully approach a woman for the first time.

Tips to Know if a Relationship is Serious

People often engage in a relationship in order to find love and comfort. Some people believe in long term relationships while some are satisfied with short term love affairs. But it is often very difficult to know whether your partner is taking the relationship seriously or not. If you are taking your love relation very seriously then you should also find out whether your lover is doing the same thing or not.

Here we will provide you some very easy tips of knowing if your relationship is serious or not.


1. Your partner calls you without any reason
Your relationship is serious if your partner calls you without any rhyme or reason just to know what you are doing. If your partner calls you just to hear your voice and makes weird excuses for calling then they really love you and are extremely serious in the relationship with you.


2. Your partner's friends know all about you
A person tells about his relationship to their friends only if they are dam serious about someone. This is a very important sign of knowing whether your lover is taking the relationship seriously or not. If your partner tends to talk about you the whole time they are with their friends, then they really like you. They talk about your hobbies, about your features your likings and disliking.


3. They listen to every word you say
Your partner is very serious about you if they listen to every word you say with great attention. If your beloved really loves you then they will not dominate the conversation or interrupt you, they will just look at your face and will respond to you in a positive way. They will listen to you rather than indulging in talking.


4. Your partner will take interest in your hobbies and work
You can easily find out whether your partner is serious in the relationship or not. If they start taking interest in all your hobbies and work then they surely are interested in you. They will also help you in your professional work if you are facing any problems in it.


5. They will be nice and polite to your friends
Your relationship is really serious if your partner is interested in knowing about the people you hang out with or the people who are your friends. Your partner will be polite and nice to your friends. They will invite your friends and will make them comfortable. This is one of the most important sign that your partner is serious about you.


These are some very simple tips through which you can easily find out whether your lover seriously loves you or not.

Things That Guys Love About Girls

Guys are easily attracted towards a beautiful and well cultured girl. But this fact may not always be true. Every boy has his own point of view and his own way of thinking. Some boys may be attracted to a cute girl while others may be attracted to studious girls. Some boys prefer girls with long hair while some prefer them with blue eyes.

So now let us discuss about the things that guys love about girls. Guys are attracted to a number of things and every guy has his own choice and preferences.


1.Attractive looks
At first sight guys tend to love girls who have good looks. Guys are often attracted by the beauty of a girl. Guys love girls who have long hair, deep blue eyes, a slim figure and a flawless skin. Beauty is one of the most important factors that attract guys when they see a girl for the first time.


2.Dressing sense
A guy is also attracted by the dressing sense of a girl. Guys love girls who are simple yet attractive. They love girls who know which type of clothes suits them the best. They are also impressed by girls who are stylish and wear modern and fashionable clothes.


3.Confidence and attitude
Guys love girls who have plenty of confidence in themselves and are self independent. Even if that girl is not attractive to look at but if she has attitude and confidence in her self, then boys are attracted towards such her.


4.Good manners
Girls, who have good manners and are polite as well as humble, often tend to attract guys. Guys love simplicity and kindness, so if a girl has these qualities then a guy will obviously be attracted to her. The good manners of a girl would show in her behavior and her way of speaking.


5.Cute and innocent
Guys love girls who are cute and innocent. A cute girl attracts a guy through her looks and way of talking. Guys like taking care of girls, so innocent girls are most loved by them.


6.Brilliance and brains
Boys are easily attracted toward girls who have their own way of thinking. They love girls who are smart as well as brilliant. Girls who have plus brains are loves by most of the guys.


These are the things that guys love about girls. A girl having these qualities can easily attract boys towards her.

Is She Flirting? Top 10 flirting tricks that women use

To understand a woman is not everyone’s cup of tea. However to assist you to understand how to recognize if a woman is flirting, I will spill out my personal secrets. Below are top 10 flirting tricks that I use when I am in flirting mood.

1. Giggling and smiling unnecessary: If you are in a group and while talking a girl is smiling and giggling all the time even on your most stupid remarks, it sure is a sign of big time flirting.
2. Gazing at you and when caught, pretending as if looking at some one else: Dude you got a shy girl in your hand. She likes you, but feeling a bit shy. Be a man. Go, talk her.
3. In a party, she is brushing against you by mistake: She is trying to get a chance to talk to you. Give her the chance?
4. In a conversation with you, she is taking too much of interest: She is showing interest in even listening to talks of silly activities of your friend’s father’s mate. So basically she is giving you full attention and obviously flirting with you.
5. While maintaining eye contact with you, she is playing with her hair, unknowingly cleansing her face; all this shows a visible sign of nervousness leading towards flirting sign.
6. Unsure about eye contact: While talking to you, if she is unsure about her eye contact, it sure is a big sign that she is interested in you, but she doesn’t want to be leveled as a too fast girl.
7. She is giving you a cute look again and again. Go speak up and initiate a conversation.
8. In a bar, deserting her friends, she comes and sits next to you and does not order any drink for her. It’s a sign for you to ask her a drink.
9. Doing weird things to get your notice: A few girls do crazy things to get noticed. If she is walking by you and by mistake glass sips out of her hand, at times it may signify she is trying to flirt with you.
10. Making soft insults at you: If you are being imitated by a girl, it may be a sign that she is trying to grab your attention.


So guys now you know what to do, when you come across a giggling, smiling, insulting girl in a party. Enjoy!

Top 5 Things Girls Like to Hear

1. Chart topper always is “You are beautiful.” And while saying it shows that you really mean it. There are also many variations of this most popular flirting pick up line like “You are HOT”, ”You are Sexy”etc. But keep in mind most of the girls will get offended if you start telling them, how sexy they are in your first meeting. So always rely upon tried and tested “You are beautiful” while looking directly into her eyes.

2. Compliments: None of the girls can resist compliments even from the creepiest males. Every girl secretly will do anything for getting complimented. Compliment her for any and every thing. E.g. Compliment her cooking, Compliment her sense of Humor, Compliment her selection of color etc. Use many “I like… “ lines e.g. “I like your bracelet, can I see it?” Make sure your compliment should not be too boastful, too cheeky or too vulgar.


3. Every girl despite hating in-laws always wants to be appreciated by all people in the world. So something like “I want you to take home and meet my family” may do wanders.


4. “My life long ambition is to visit Paris (or whatever – try to pick a place that is in her wish list). Will you travel with me to Paris, if we get a chance”. With this line you are fulfilling her life long wish without really showing that it is her wish, not your wish. Who won’t like it?


5. “You complete me” – These are the lines from one of my most favorite one liner movie Jerry Maguire. These lines not only compliment a girl on physical beauty side, but these compliment on her overall personality.




However in summary always keep in mind a girl always likes to hear "COMPLIMENTS, COMPLIMENTS and COMPLIMENTS". However while passing a compliment, don't overdo it. Also make sure that compliment should look sincere.

How To Get A Guy To Like You

OK this post is strictly for ladies. I know boys will read it anyway, so I won’t ask them to quit reading? Here is my personal list of how to get a guy to like you.

1. Work on your looks, be attractive: Believe me, no matter what a boy says, ultimately at the end of the day, it all comes to your looks. So better work on your looks. Try your best to improve your looks.
2. Don’t be a Miss I-Know-All: Bitter truth is even though we are in 21st century, most of the guys don’t like over smart woman. Now that we know this weakness of guys, we can use it to our advantage. All we have to do is act a bit dumb and it will swell the ego of your guy.
3. Learn to appreciate humor.
4. Improve your body language: It is something which is very important even in all fields of life.
5. Be smart: Guys love to show their woman. So carry your persona smartly. Always show confidence in everything you do.
6. Learn the art of flirting harmlessly. Show that you have an active interest in him. At the same time, don’t act cheaply.
7. Don’t ever compromise with yourself: Who wants to love a loser? Be whatever may, never compromise with yourself, even if that means losing in short term. However in long term, you will get due respect from your man.
8. Learn the art of listening: Well it is a tough one. Isn’t it? We all love to talk and chat. Most of the men have learnt the habit of listening while dealing with us. However no man will continue their relationship with you, if they can’t express themselves. So allow your man to express himself. Give him also sometime to speak out?
9. Be nice to his friends: Keep this in mind, his friends were before you entered into his life. So at times, you may have issues with his friends, but never force your personal feelings regarding his friend on to him.
10. Once again, look attractive, look hot and you got 90% deal done?

Creative and fun dating ideas

Everyone is interested in creative and romantic date ideas. A number of these ideas help us to make our dates more special and fun loving. We need to experiment with new ideas and thoughts to make the time spent together even more thrilling and exciting.

So here are some of the most interesting and funny dating ideas that would make you have an awesome and great time on your date.

• Spend your time knowing about each others taste, liking and disliking, their favorite pass time and the things theylove doing the most.
• Take your date out for a romantic candle light dinner at an exquisite restaurant, if you have the budget then you can probably arrange for a limousine, that would make your date feel like a princess.
• People love surprises; give your date a surprise birthday party when it is least expected.
• Give them beautiful flowers, chocolate and expressive cards with romantic poems or quotations.
• If your date is interested in sports, you can take her to one of the big sporting events in the town. You can learn the names of her favorite sport stars, which would help you to know her even better
• Long drives are the most romantic and adventurous dating ideas. During the drive you can enjoy the weather and scenery outside. Stop by a restaurant on the way and give your girl an ice-cream treat, which would really make her happy.
• Going for a romantic movie can also add spice to your date, hold her hand during the movie and tell her how much you love her.
• Girls love shopping, so take her for a shopping spree. This will make you aware of her taste in clothes, footwear and jewelery, so that next time you would be able to buy her a gift of her own taste and likeness.
• You can go on a hiking and trekking trip together; this will bring you in contact with the nature and would also help in making the beautiful bond between you two grow even stronger.
• And last of all spent some quality time together, take her to some quite and private place where both of you can enjoy and celebrate the feeling of togetherness.

These dating ideas will surely introduce you to a new world of creativity and adventure which will help to make your date turn into a memorable experience.

Common Dating Mistakes That Men Make

In any relationship it is very common among dating couples to make some or the other mistake. Most of these mistakes are avoidable but in some cases they become the very base of destroying a relationship. Surveys conducted all around the world prove that a large percentage of these mistakes are made by guys and not by girls.

So let us now look into the most common mistakes that men tend to make on their dates:

• One of the worst dating mistakes that a man can make is turning up late for his date. Some men adopt this tactic to gain importance but it is proven that this is the dumbest mistake that any man can make; it really annoys a woman to wait for his date sitting alone.
• Another common mistake that most men make is that they are too self-occupied, instead of concentrating on their date they tend to talk mostly about themselves, it is considered as bad manners if one dominates the conversation and ignores the other person completely.
• Physical appearance is surely a plus point in attracting any girl, but one also has to take care of their personal hygiene. One should be careful of bad body odor, yellow teeth, dirty clothes and poor table manners.
• Most women hate men who are show offs, but men make this common mistake of acting too rich than they really are. Women love style and luxury but cheaters and liars are not at all accepted by them.
• Some men talk about their ex-girlfriends or wives most of the time, this really hurts a women, because they want the concentration of that man on them and not on something that has happened in his previous life.
• Another common mistake is acting too needy and desperate; men should not be too physical on their first few dates because this act gives an impression to the women that they are only dating them for pleasure and not for love.
• Men try to act as if they are superior to women; some men try to force their views on the women they are dating and want that women to do everything according to their wish. Most of the women dislike men of such nature because they are free individuals and have every right to live according to their own hopes and aspirations.
• And last but not the least sometimes men become too possessive. They stop their women from even talking to another guy. Women hate this attitude because this gives them a feeling of being possessed.

Hence a man should try his level best to avoid making these mistakes on his date to maintain a good loving relationship with their partner on a long-term basis.

Best Dating Sites to Date and Find Love

Today thousands of people are using dating sites on a regular basis to find love and friendship. These sites help them to look for people who are most compatible to them. Dating websites have become quite famous among people of all age groups in this last decade. These sites give them the much needed space and time for building up any relationship.


Here we present you with few of the best sites to date and find love. These
Sites will successfully help its users in finding the much needed love and relationship.


1. friend finder
This popular website promises that it is not only a mere dating site but also helps its members in starting a new and successful relationship. This site provides free workshops and discussions to its members on relationship and love.


2. Love planet singles
It is a hundred percent totally free site. It provides you with fun dating, creative ideas for relationships and friendship. This site is specialized in online dating procedures and methods.


3. Total Dating 
It provides you with everything that you would need to play a successful
Dating game. It provides you with chat forums, very detailed personal profiles of its members and colorful homepage.


4. Sober and Single
It is a very unique site and specializes in dating non-drinking singles so that they can enjoy liquor free life together. This site is created especially for those people who are non-drinkers and who hate to be surrounded by drinkers.


5. Match
This site claims to have a high success rate.Match.com is one of the best site in online dating. It has many special features like match mobile, online personal attractions, match live and match travel. It has a very active list of members who are interested in finding love and relationship.


6. True
This site emphasizes more on the safety of its members. This site has almost 10 million members who take active part in its day-to-day activities. It makes the use of scientific methods to find out the compatibility of its members. It has attractive background music and themes.


7. Kiss and Date
This site has 100 percent free e-mailing, 100 percent free chatting and 100 percent free message facility. It has advance features like zip code search, personal photos and videos settings and much more. It also provides advice on personal relationships and dating.


8. Large and lovely connections
This site has personals for plus sized singles. This innovative and very creative networking site is mainly for the larger size persons. Availability of such sites makes the larger sized person more at ease in using other websites also.


These popular dating websites will help its users in finding the right person they are looking for. These sites also cater to the different needs of all the individuals in finding love and friendship.

How to Tell if Someone Likes You

It is a very difficult to tell whether a person genuinely likes you or not. How can you say whether a certain guy or girl is interested in you? And how can you be totally sure that whether that liking is love, attraction or just infatuation. To know this there are some signs and clues that you must see.

To help you find out whether a person really likes you, we give you some advice that you must follow in order to be completely sure.

• If suddenly some one calls you every few hours just to know what you were doing or whether you are free to meet him or her, then this is the first sign to know that that person in interested in you.

• If a person turns up each and everywhere you go, and that person some how manages to single you out and talk to you even if you are in a large group, then this is the second sign.

• If a person is acting very strangely, getting nervous or starts stammering when in front of you then be sure to know that it is the third sign that some one likes you.

• If a person starts complementing you without any rhyme or reason and starts acting in a flirtatious manner with you then it is the fourth sign to know that he or she is interested in you.

• The fifth sign that would help you to know whether a person is attracted to you is that that person will start smiling and blushing a lot when talking or even just standing near you.

• That person will show the sixth sign by telling your mutual friends that he or she likes you. They will even ask your friends about your personal details and your hobbies.

• You will know that a person likes you if he keeps staring at you and admiring you at all places. These tactics are adopted to gain someone's attention, so it is surely the seventh sign.

• The next sign that you should be looking for is, try to observe them when you are any where near them, if their behavior suddenly changes when they see you or if they try to touch you if you are standing close to them then they surely like you.

• The most important sign a person will show if they like you is, that they will openly invite you in front of their or your friends to spend some time together with then alone.

So these are some of the most important signs one should be looking for if they want to make sure whether a person is truly attracted to them or is it just a figment of their imagination.

HOW TO GET YOUR GIRLFRIEND BACK

Being in a relationship is a very beautiful feeling. We feel on top of the world, sharing each and every moment with one another. But think what would happen if suddenly that wonderful bond is lost forever and we experience a break up. 

If you love your girl friend more than your life, but she wants to have a break up, then how would you hold her back? These are questions one would ask himself. Is it really worth holding her back? Well there is an easy way to know whether you really want to stay put in that relationship or you want to let it go.


1. Do you really miss her when she is away?
2. You can not sleep when she is angry or sad.
3. You want her to be with you till eternity.
4. You can not see her with another guy.
5. And if you are ready jeopardize everything you own just to get her back.


If you are experiencing these symptoms then you really need your girlfriend back and you really are a one women man. So now let us talk about the most effective and easiest ways to get your girl friend back. Sometimes when one has a sudden break up then they tend to adopt the most destructive methods to get their girl friends back, but this should not be the case. It only causes ill feelings and distance between the two. A guy should never cry or attempt a suicide in such things one should be stronger and face every opposition bravely. One should always search for a reason for the break-up and how can problems between the two could be soughed out, only then measures to get back your girlfriend could be adopted. Getting back your girlfriend is not an easy task.


It requires a lot of effort, time and energy to persuade her to come back to you, you have to give your reasons and impress her. The best ways are:

• If you really want her back, say sorry to her even if it is not your fault.
• Give her some time to think over it again.
• Do not push her too much to take you back as her boyfriend.
• Do not show your emotions in front of her stay cool and give her the required space.
• Try to convince her that you will never repeat your previous mistakes again.
• Do not keep calling your girlfriend and emotionally back mail her to commit to you again.
• Try to assure her that you will always love her and never leave her for any one else.
• And at last send her some flowers or a very expressive letter or card stating all your feelings for her.

It is not guaranteed that by following these tips you will get your girl friend back, but it will surely guide you and hence will provide a path way for you to win your sweetheart's trust and love once again.

How to Attract Women

I am sure this article will be universally loved by all men around the globe :) Such is the power of love. Below are a few tips that I can suggest to all males to help them in attracting females.

1. Don’t behave like a stray dog. It is the most important secret to rule a woman’s heart. You should not chase every skirt.
2. Make the woman you are hitting feel special. Again the key is point number 1. If you don’t go after every skirt, the one after you will go will feel special.
3. Don’t be a loud speaker: Most of the males enjoy bragging about women. They seem to think if they will speak in great detail about their past victories all women will drool upon them. From a woman point of view, it is a big no.
4. Don’t get scared of beauty. Most of the men get scared in talking to a beautiful woman. From a woman point of view, the one who is beautiful gets hit by very few men. So if you go after a beautiful woman, your selection probability is quite high.
5. Learn to accept rejection.
6. Have strength in your personality. All women in their heart wish for a dominant guy. This dominancy can be in form of looks, money, power, intellect or art. No one dreams about a common Joe. So all you got to do is take a skill that you have and package it in a way so that others think of you as an expert in your field.
7. Don’t brag about Sex, Sports, Drinks, Smoke and your friends.
8. Don’t expect a one night stand with 95% of the woman. The road to woman goes through her heart. Win the heart.
9. Show a level of possessiveness. Woman long for possessiveness. But don’t be an over jealous always suspecting cop.
10. Learn some humor. Learning the humor is probably one of the easiest things in the world. Still 90% men lack humor.

Top 10 Cute Pickup Lines

Pickup lines come very handy, when you come across a woman for the first time in a crowded environment. Now all you have is a very few seconds to get her attention. You feed her a good line and lady is all over you. You commit a mistake with your words and you may even get slapped.

You are in a bar. You come across a gorgeous lady. You are out of words. All you need is a solid pickup line to seal the deal. Below are top 10 pickup lines that I have come across.
1. "Did you fall from heaven?” Girl asks "Why?” Boy says "Because you look like an angel”
2. This one is sweet. "If I can re-arrange the alphabet, I will put U & I together”
3. This one is a bit corny. "Do you have a library card? Because I am checking you out.”
4. "Do you have a quarter? I want to call my mom and thank her.” Such a sweet sissy boy.
5. This one is witty. "Hi, I am super computer working at whitepages. I have all the phone numbers in town. Somehow yours is missing. What’s your number?”
6. Hey, if I kiss you, will I get slapped?
7. Hello, you are the cheerleader for Lakers?
8. Hey, you ever had a guy follow you up for miles just because he loved your dimples?
9. Can I get your autograph please? Weren’t you the one who worked in The Beautiful Damsel movie?
10. I am new in this city. Can you give me the direction to your apartment please?


I am a personal witness of most of these lines. Indeed the creators of these lines always get rewarded with love and affection from all ladies.

Why do women love men ?

Indeed it is a tough question for ladies. Men are so different and while talking among us, rarely we talk anything good about men’s habits. Talk about their love for beer, brawl, football, urinating with commode lid on almost all the things men do are irritating. Still women love men. Below are a few points that I can think about. If you know more feel free to add.

1. They are different. We all know opposite attracts. If I have to go for a vacation, I will rather go to Africa or Japan instead of going to say San Francisco. People love to do things which they can’t do naturally / don’t possess naturally. Since men are so different, it is prime reason women love men.
2. Father Figure – Since childhood all women adore their fathers. Liking is natural, because most of the time fathers love their daughters more than sons. So when daughters grew up, they seek love from men.
3. Men can do lot many things that women can’t do and these things are needed in day to day life. E.g. replacing the flat tire, cleaning the front yard real quick, cutting grass etc etc etc.
4. Women need men for sex.
5. Smell of men is intoxicating for women. I know same is true vice versa as well.
6. Men don’t sob easily. So when it is time to sob, women know at least their partner will remain sane.
7. Men turn a blind eye towards women’s favorite time-passes e.g. gossiping, shopping for sandals, taking hours for makeup. Had they been like us, they will be poking their nose in all the time. So despite sharing the same bed, each maintains their individuality

When to end a relationship

Coming to think of it, it is a topic that no-one really wants to think about. Heck, when you start a relationship or when you are in a relationship, even thinking about when to end relationship is taboo. However if you like it or not, but in your mind you should always have certain criteria failing which there should be an immediate termination of relationship.

1. Cheating - In my dictionary cheating means immediate termination of relationship. You will always come across counselors who will talk about giving second chance and all that. However from experience I know once a cheater always a cheater. A cheater will always find tens of excuses to prove his innocence which exactly makes him a bigger lier.

2. Lack of time - If you notice continuous lack of time from your partner, it is time to start thinking about moving on. There may always be genuine reasons for lack of time, however nothing more is important in life than love. If ur partner can find one hour time daily to go to gym, then indeed he can find the time for you.

3. Excessive arguments - Sure every relationship will always have some arguments. However if you two start arguing on thing as minor as what to cook in breakfast and why the other person went to bathroom first, it is time to move on.

4. Money matters - If you think your partner is using you all the time. Your partner never has enough money to pay for his beer, to pay for his car gas, to pay for his lunch, then he has turned into a loser. Who anyway wants to be with a loser?

5. Physical beating - If your partner starts harassing you physically, then you have to seriously think about moving. Your soul is far worth more important than how great your lover is in bed.

6. Lack of respect towards your basic rights - If your partner is abusive towards your language, your religion, your color, your parents, it is high time to get a partner who respects you as a human.

7. Common goals are changed - When you start a relationship, situation may have been different. But in due course of time common goals get changed. You may feel you love living in Houston, but your partner wants to move to Boston. Sure either change the goal or change the relationship.

Top Ten Impressions on Online Dating

Some people get very uncomfortable with the idea of internet dating. They are not at ease with the idea of dating a complete stranger who they have not even seen in reality. Always be very careful while conversing and dealing with people online. There are many internet scammers who will easily make a fool out of you. Never pass any personal information to your online suitor.


Now let us discuss about the top ten impressions that you should make while engaged in an online dating service.


1. Do not get addicted to such services
If you are engaged in online dating then you should not make it your hobby or an obsession. Stay in the world of reality; do not be too engrossed in it, that you forget about your real existence.


2.be careful of scammers and scandals
Many people create fake profiles and ids. Deception, deceit, lies and scams have become a part of online dating networks. So be very careful while imparting with your personal as well as professional information.


3.Online dating connects with reality
Online dating is very much related with reality. There is addiction, obsession, vindictiveness, desperation, impulsiveness, and even guilt. Always take your decision by your head and not by your heart.


4.Take small steps
If you have just started online dating then it is very necessary for you to take small steps. Do not give your phone number to any one on the first conversation only.


5.Do a throughout research of dating sites
If you want to join a dating service then do a through out research of all the dating networks operating online. Consult your friends and relatives before choosing a particular service.


6.Follow online safety tips
Parents should tell their children about the flaws and disadvantages of online dating. There are online safety tips that should be followed by everyone.


7.Take your decisions wisely
Finding a perfect date through chats and internet is very easy but you should take all your decisions wisely. Do not trust a stranger blindly; this can result in serious consequences.


8.Do not rush into any thing
The nice thing about Internet dating is that you can do it at your own pace without taking time away from work. But don't let that rush you into anything.


9.Know about the truth
There are horrible dates and unpleasant experiences that are not being reported, because people are either too embarrassed or afraid to share their online dating experiences with anyone. So always look at the dark aspect before considering anything.


10.Do not be duped by online suitors
Do not believe any one blindly. There are thousands of cases of online scandals affecting the lives of many people.


Follow these impressions to achieve success in your online dating experience.

Drawbacks of dating your colleagues

dating a co-worker is a very dangerous thing. It is often better not to date your colleague. This will create unnecessary problems in your professional as well as personal life. There are many reasons for not dating a co-worker. While some people may think dating a co-worker is a very wild and thrilling idea while but for it creates an awkward working environment.

Here we will discuss some of the main disadvantages of dating your co-worker.

1.Creates an awkward working environments
Dating with a co-worker can create a very awkward working environment for you. Some peoples find it very difficult to concentrate on their work if they are working with their lovers. Conversing and discussing problems related with work can also become a difficult task. If one is involved with their co-worker then they will spend a greater part of their office time, discussing and solving personal problems.


2.It can involve harassment
Facing harassment by superiors or co-workers is a very common thing in professional organizations. If you are dating your co-worker then these possibilities will increase. Your partner may also complain about you to the superiors of the organization if you do not behave properly with them. Relationship with a colleague creates many problems in your professional as well as personal life.


3.Dating a co-worker will also effect your image in the office
Dating your co-worker not only affects your relationship with one person but it also changes your image in front of every office member. If your relationship is out then all your co-workers will make awkward remarks at you, this will create a very uncomfortable environment for you at your work place. Your co-workers may also feel jealous or irritate of you because of your relationship with another co-worker.


4.Keep the reality in mind
If you have a break up with your co-worker then it would be very difficult for you to work in the same office. One should always try to keep their professional life separate from their personal life. Every one has to deal with this situation, so you should make sure that your break up does not affect your professional life with that person. Behave with them very normally and politely.


5.Differences between the co-workers
Relationship between a superior and a subordinate is a very complicated relationship. If you receive a promotion and your partner does not then this will create many problems and differences in your relationship, it may also lead one to blackmail the other partner.


So dating a co-worker is never a good idea. Always avoid getting romantically involved with a colleague.

Do's and Don'ts of a First Date

First dating experience is a very wonderful experience for any couple. Every body wants this moment to be very special and exciting. For a very good first date experience one has to be very conscious about their looks, manners and attitude.

Now let us discuss some important do's and don'ts of a first date experience.

Do's

1. Always be on time
The very first thing that every individual should keep in mind is that they should never ever be late for their first date. This will give a bad impression to their dating partners.

2. Be very nice to your date
Another thing that one should follow is they should be very nice and polite to their dating partners. Always try to make your partner comfortable and safe.

3. Take an active part in the conversation 
You should take an active part in the conversation. Listen to what your partner says and ask them questions about their likes and dislikes. Do not be too boring or serious.

4. Do not insult or complain
If you are going on a date then try to adjust to all the things. Do not unnecessarily complain about each and every small thing.

5. Just be confident and be yourself
Confidence says a lot about a person. Being more confident will help you get through that first date with ease. Never try to pretend or be a show off.

Don'ts

1. Do not talk about your ex
If you want to succeed in a relationship then you should never talk too much about your ex. This will make your present partner feel hurt and frustrated.

2. Do not ask too many questions
In a first date it is not considered very polite to ask too many questions. If you both like each other then you will get plenty of time to ask questions.

3. Do not drink too much
It is not at all polite to be drunk when you are just having your first date. This gives your partner a very false impression about your character.

4. Do not form a judgment
If you have just experienced a first date then it is not right for you to make judgment about the character and attitude of your partner. Give them more time in order to understand them in a better way.

5. Do not ever dominate a conversation
Never try to dominate the conversation. Give your partner an equal opportunity to talk about their interests and hobbies.

These are some of the very important do's and don'ts that you should remember while going on a first date.

Magical Tips for Handling Rejection from Women

Handling rejection can be a very difficult part in the life of any individual. Rejection is an inevitable part of life and we all experience it in some form or the other. If you handle potential and actual rejection then you have an advantage in the dating scene.

Now we will discuss some amazing tips to handle rejection from women.

1. Be sincere and truthful
Women like to feel special and they love compliments. However, they will quickly pick up on it if you are not being truthful. Avoid pick-up lines and standard phrases. Instead set the target for being personable and charming.

2. Be cool and confident
It is often a very difficult task to engage in conversation with a stranger. But you should never loose your confidence. Be very calm and collected. Put your best foot forward and have a charming smile.

3. Follow the hints of improvement
If a woman has rejected you then she will give you some reason for her decision. She would also give you some hints for improvements. Try to listen to these hints and take some time for self examination if you continued to be rejected for the same reasons.

4. Be very particular about what you want from your partner
Many men seek extremely beautiful women while others want their women to posses a great body or have great intelligence. Be very realistic and first consider what you want from a relationships  before asking any girl for a date.

5. Give a good first impression
You should aim for leaving a good impression regardless of how and by whom you were turned down. Upholding a polite and civil image can only benefit you. Those who experience your response to rejection will think highly of you and you will probably feel better about yourself afterwards.

6. Do not take the rejection personally 
If you want to be successful in dating scenario then you need to shrug of rejection with ease and move on. There is no reason to dwell on a negative response to your advances, just go for someone else instead.

7. Get involved with your friends and family
Another way of handling rejection in the right way is to get involved with your family members and friends. If one woman has rejected you then that does not mean you will never get a girlfriend. Rejection leaves more scope for improvement. Learn from your mistakes that do not indulge for self in drugs and alcohol.

These are some of the most magical tips from handling rejection from women. By following these suggestions you would surely get a beautiful and life long relationship.

Best Ways of Knowing When You Need To Take a Break from Online Dating

Today a large number of people are engaged in online dating because it is much easier way to find an ideal partner. Online dating also provides you many facilities and options that traditional dating method lack.


People often get so engrossed in online dating that they completely loose the touch from the real world. An online dating world is a whole world in itself, sometimes people get very serious in online affairs or relationships which later affect their lives in a disastrous manner.


Now let us discuss the best ways of knowing when you need to take a break from online dating.


1. When you are getting too involved
The best way to take a break from online dating is when you are getting too involved in it. If you are engaged in an online dating service from morning till night and you are getting very obsessive then you should immediately consider taking a break from it. Try to get involved in other activities and hobbies.


2. When you are loosing the touch from reality
Some people are so involved in online dating that they can find nothing better to do. They think that online dating is the best and easiest way of meeting new and interesting people. If you are also experiencing these symptoms then it is the correct time for you to take a break from online dating activities. Try traditional dating methods for a change.


3. Prepare yourself
If finally you have taken the decision to take a break from online dating then you have to prepare yourself for it. Try to avoid the subject of online dating altogether. You might be tempted to go back but stop your self from taking this step. Try to give your self some solid reasons as to why to have taken a break from online dating. Take a complete break from not only internet dating but also from the internet itself. This will surely help you to enjoy your break.


4. Stick to your decision to the end
You may feel very tempted to go back to online dating, but do your best to stop this temptation. Build your self confidence and have enough courage to stop your self from going back to online dating. You may have different reasons for taking a break like financial reasons, emotional reasons or time related issues, so just try to stick to your reasons. Spend time with friends, go for movies and parties, read a book and take up a hobby like singing or dancing.


These suggestions would surely help you in taking a break from online dating.

Best Tips for Getting a Girl's Phone Number

Getting a girl's phone number is the most difficult problem that every guy tends to face. If you really like a girl and want to know her in a better way then it is very essential for you to get her contact number. Through her contact number you can easily get to know her in a better way.

Here we will give you some best tips for getting a girl's phone number in the most tactful manner.
1.Be very realistic
In order to get a girl's phone number you have to behave in a very realistic manner. Always hope for the best but expect the worst. May be the girl you are attracted to already have a boyfriend or may be if she does not have one, even then she might refuse you her contact number. Always prepare your self for such situations.
2.Try to get her interested in you
A girl will never give you her phone number unless and until she is also attracted to your personality. If you want to succeed in getting the contact number of the girl you like, then try to get her interested in you. There are various ways to get a girl interested in you, so choose the best way that would be most suitable in your situation.
3.Try to behave in a friendly manner
In order to receive a girl's number, try to smile and maintain eye contact with her. If you like a girl, then smile at her, smiling always sends a friendly message. Also try making eye contact with her, this will tell her that you are truly interested in her.
4.Introduce yourself to her
Before making any friendly approaches towards a girl, try to introduce yourself to her. You can also get yourself introduced through common friends or acquaintances. Do not make the introduction very formal. Just use your name and ask her for the same.
5.Try to compliment her 
Try to win her over by some flattery and compliments. A girl will only give you her phone number if she truly likes you. Be very polite and creative while praising her. You can praise her for her looks, dressing sense or intelligence.
6.Do not ask for the phone number, let her give it to you
Asking a girl for her phone number is often considered to be very rude. If the girl you like is truly impressed by your qualities, then she will give you her personal number on her own accord.

These are some very foolproof ways of getting a girl's phone number.

Useful Tips for Dating a Teacher's Daughter

Many guys tend to fall for their teacher's daughter. Young love is very innocent and pure. When one is young they do not feel scared to fall in love, even though it is with their teacher's daughter.

If you have also fallen in love with your teacher's daughter and want to establish a relationship with her, then here are some very useful tips that would surely help you to accomplish your task.


1.Treat the relationship in a normal manner
If you are dating your teacher's daughter then you should try to treat the relationship in the same manner as you would have treated with any other girl in your school. You should not act differently towards her mother just because she is your teacher. Behave in a polite, respectful and dignified manner.


2.Do not kiss her in school
If you want to successfully date a teacher's daughter then you should save the kissing for after school or weekends. This is good advice for everyone in high school. Always choose a private and safe place for all these activities, because if you are caught then you will surely be punished.


3.Learn to respect the relationship
Always try to respect your relationship and keep it private from others. There are going to be disagreements and fights between you and your girlfriends but try to keep them away from her mother's or any other teacher's eyes. This will keep your relationship safe and private.


4.Establish a peaceful relationship with your teacher
Remember that you are still the student and the teacher is still the teacher. If the relationship progresses, you will certainly be seeing this teacher on a more casual basis after school on weekends. Keep your conversations appropriate.


5.Treat the other girls in your class with respect
If you want to date a teacher's daughter then it is very essential for you to treat the other girls in your class with respect. This will make your teacher respect and admire you. She would trust you more with the safety and comfort of her daughter.


6.Do not date a girl just because her mom is a teacher
Before staring your relationship with a teacher's daughter, you should tell the girl that you are not dating her just because her mother is a teacher. Remind her that you are dating her because you like her, not because of anything related to her mother.


7.Do not ever make fun of your teacher
You should never try to make fun of your teacher with your friends especially in the company of her daughter. Be very sure whether your teacher is comfortable with the idea that you are dating her daughter.


Keep all these essentials tips in mind while dating a teachers' daughter.